11 Things You Might Be Doing If You’re Plagued By Self-Doubt & Why You Should Stop

We are all looking for love in our lives. What we forget is that loving ourselves is one of the most important things ever. When was the last time you looked at yourself and appreciated all the good things about yourself? And this has become one of the most talked about problems of this generation. Everyone trying to please everyone and giving themselves less importance.

Here are 12 things you might be doing because you think you are not good enough.

1. You delete your posts after uploading them.

You tend to give social media a lot of importance and rely on enough likes and comments on your selfie. And you end up deleting the post even if you liked it originally.

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2. You let other people decide for you.

You always feel the decision that you make will not be as beneficial for you if you do not consult others. You not only do what they say, but forget what you decided for yourself before.

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3. You keep blaming yourself even if you aren’t at fault.

Sab meri galti hai!

If someone shouts at you, you assume you were annoying enough to make them shout. That constantly insecure person inside you will never let you see who you actually are.

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4. You don’t know how to say no.

You are constantly trying to please others for no reason. Because of this, the realization of how people are taking advantage of you, never crosses your mind.

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5. You always compare yourself to others.

Seeing people’s perfect life on Instagram makes you think less of yours. Your happiness depends on how other people are leading their lives, and beating them becomes the ultimate goal.

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6. You are always afraid to say what you think.

Not knowing how important it is to have an opinion, you are always self-conscious about speaking your mind and never realize the value you bring to a conversation. This makes you more and more underconfident.

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7. The thought of rejection is terrifying for you.

You never made the first move, interviews are always a nightmare.

Why is it difficult for you to believe that someone actually likes you? If you don’t believe in yourself, no one will.

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8. Giving up easily is what you do on a daily basis.

Whether it is about a guy you like or as trivial as playing a game, giving up is easy for you because you never believed in your abilities.

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9. You never make time for yourself.

Always occupied in thinking what others think of you, and trying to change their opinions about you never gives you enough time to spend time alone and discover who you really are.

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10. You always assume that the worst things will happen to you.

Sitting all day on the couch and thinking about how miserable you are and it won’t get you anything. You never think of making an effort of getting up and change things that are not right.

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11. Criticising yourself is your best time pass.

I am not beautiful, I am not as smart as other people or I deserve to be this way.

No! When was the last time you appreciated yourself? You always have something negative to say about yourself.

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Start loving yourself and see the change because there is nothing as satisfying as pure self-love.